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#1 Bosgam

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Posted 01 September 2018 - 08:29 PM

Have a question for all the seasoned experts on this forum! For places that charge 1000+ THB for tips, is it safe to assume that you can do more than just a happy ending? Or do you need to negotiate further with masseur? For example, are you allowed to kiss and suck the masseur in Arena?



#2 DivineMadman

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Posted 01 September 2018 - 09:32 PM

Arena is 100% transparent that the basic massage charges -- 590(?) for 1 hr oil and minimum "tip" 700/hr 1,000 1.5hr -- only includes hand job/shower & massage.  In my experience the masseur is naked, so I take that as part of the minimum.  

 

 

 

The 700 baht/hour minimum tip includes the following services:-
(1) Masseur wash your body for you in the shower
(2) Massage services provided by the masseur
(3) A hand job

http://arenaspa-bang...um-tips-最低消費是什麼

 

So anything more needs to be agreed to ahead of time.  I think there are examples of people have not understood this and been flustered that the masseur expects a higher tip for receiving a blow job from the customer.    

 

If kissing is important I think you really really really must confirm that with the manager when you make your selection.  I think all around the world it is true that some guys in the business kiss and others simply do not.  (For some guys in this part of the world tongue kissing is also not part of their cultural background.)

 

Now when you're talking about a shop where the minimum tip is 1,000/hr or over, there my going-in assumption is that it is full service.  So, an example might be Prince, where the house charge for 1 hr. oil is 900, the minimum "tip" is 1,000/hr.   http://www.theprincebkk.com  [Prince is just an example, not an exclusive recommendation.  It has it's good points and bad.]  But at Prince or Arena or VCK, or even the Soi Twilight shops, because so many of the guys are straight/top only, if you are interested in kissing you again absolutely MUST confirm that with the manager when you make your selection.

 

Also, something that I find common at the big shops is that even if you discuss all your requirements with the manager, don't expect him to pass on that helpful customer service info to the masseur.  Ugh.  So, if I were you and it's important, as you're walking to the room wherever you go confirm with the guy "You can kiss - yes?"  It also helps him know what you want and he really want you to be happy.  



#3 vinapu

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Posted 01 September 2018 - 11:01 PM

Divine Madman said it all but I add that if I consider something important for me / kissing , yes ! / I talk directly to a boy in question.

 

First, never sure what info mamasan is passing on to a boy, second , to give a boy a chance to answer for himself, is not unknown that for a right client boys may evaluate their inhibitions and always an optimist I usually hope to be that customer.

 

To answer OP question , yes , if min tip for 1 hr is 1000+ , I'd expect  full service but still it must be cleared with boy what that means.



#4 Bosgam

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Posted 02 September 2018 - 01:36 AM

DivineMadman & Vinapu, thanks for the clear and detailed explanations. Very helpful and much appreciated. 



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Posted 02 September 2018 - 02:52 AM

What if you want to spend some of your massage time massaging and doing more to the masseur?  Should that be agreed upon ahead of time?



#6 DivineMadman

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Posted 02 September 2018 - 05:43 AM

What if you want to spend some of your massage time massaging and doing more to the masseur?  Should that be agreed upon ahead of time?

Reader is the expert on that   ;)  i hope he answers



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Posted 02 September 2018 - 06:30 AM

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( a)  get off table

 

( b ) invite masseur to lie down

 

( c ) massage him

 

It's critical that you refrain from over thinking this.



#8 vinapu

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Posted 02 September 2018 - 10:36 AM

What if you want to spend some of your massage time massaging and doing more to the masseur?  Should that be agreed upon ahead of time?

he may even like it.

 

Like reader said , go with the flow. Too much arrangements may spoil the fun and may lead to time watching.






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